User talk:35.141.142.199

VERY IMPORTANT: If I remove an entry from a year article, it's because it's not notable for the year that it happened in, or it's unsourced. If you use your disagreement with my edit summary as an excuse to make false allegations of WP:UCR against me, then I will keep bothering you on Wikipedia until you finally understand.

Welcome![edit]

Hello, and thank you for lending your time to help improve Ghost train (disambiguation)! If you are interested in continuing to edit, I suggest you make an account to gain a bunch of privileges. Happy editing! Queen of ♡ | speak 20:36, 15 April 2024 (UTC)[reply]

Accidental Reversion[edit]

Hello, apologies for the revert on your revert! I'm not sure exactly how that happened, but seems I slipped up in Huggle. Thank you for your contributions and apologies for any trouble. Lucas7yoshi (talk) 05:19, 20 April 2024 (UTC)[reply]

It's ok. I'll try to remain calm whenever accidental huggle happens. 35.141.142.199 (talk) 05:20, 20 April 2024 (UTC)[reply]

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Again, welcome! '''[[User:CanonNi]]''' (talk|contribs) 05:29, 20 April 2024 (UTC)[reply]

Oops[edit]

My mistake - I was looking at the wrong diff! — Voice of Clam (talk) 05:43, 20 April 2024 (UTC)[reply]

Please[edit]

Please revert your edits at User talk:DementiaGaming. Let the stuff from February go. If that sort of thing happens again, we'll handle it. Firefangledfeathers (talk / contribs) 18:15, 23 April 2024 (UTC)[reply]

Ok, done. Btw, I know it's not an excuse, but I am autistic and sometimes I have issues letting past issues go. I kept trying to move on with my life (I even took a break from Wikipedia until March 11th as you can tell by my contributions) but it still kept bugging the heck out of me. I feel like I'm the one who should seek therapy after all. 35.141.142.199 (talk) 18:18, 23 April 2024 (UTC)[reply]

I get it! Happy to see you took the advice. Firefangledfeathers (talk / contribs) 18:24, 23 April 2024 (UTC)[reply]

Just asked ChatGPT about how can I make myself feel better. Here's what it told me: "If you're finding that a past situation is still significantly impacting your life and causing distress, seeking support from a therapist could be a beneficial step. Here are a few reasons why therapy might be helpful in this situation: 1. Processing Emotions: A therapist can provide a safe and supportive space for you to explore and process your emotions related to the past situation. Talking through your feelings with a trained professional can help you gain insight and perspective, as well as develop healthier coping mechanisms.2. Identifying Patterns: Sometimes, past situations can trigger patterns of thinking or behavior that affect our present lives. A therapist can help you identify these patterns and work towards changing them, empowering you to respond differently to similar situations in the future. 3. Building Resilience: Therapy can help you build resilience and develop strategies for managing difficult emotions and situations. By learning effective coping skills and self-care techniques, you can strengthen your ability to navigate challenges and move forward with greater confidence. 4. Gaining Clarity: Talking with a therapist can help you gain clarity and perspective on the past situation, allowing you to see it from different angles and understand its impact on your life more fully. This increased understanding can be empowering and facilitate the process of letting go. 5. Moving Forward: Ultimately, therapy can support you in letting go of the past and moving forward with your life. While it's normal to experience lingering effects from past experiences, therapy can help you release the grip of those memories and focus on creating a brighter future for yourself. If you're considering therapy, take some time to research therapists in your area who specialize in the issues you're facing. You can also reach out to your primary care physician or trusted individuals in your support network for recommendations. Remember that seeking help is a sign of strength, and there's no shame in reaching out for support when you need it." 35.141.142.199 (talk) 18:26, 23 April 2024 (UTC)[reply]

Stop interacting with ItsCheck[edit]

Hi IP35. I understand you have a hard time letting go of your prior dispute with ItsCheck. I'm sorry to say it, but if you continue to act as you have been—for example, by following IC to a talk page in order to personally attack him—it's very likely that you'll be blocked or banned. Since we're a volunteer-led project that involves all kinds of people, disputes are common. It's important that participants be able to move on afterward. If more discussion with me would be helpful to you, I'd be happy to talk. Firefangledfeathers (talk / contribs) 02:58, 29 May 2024 (UTC)[reply]

You know what? I think it might actually be time for me to stop. I actually got second thought and kind of feel bad now. Imagine you had a dispute with someone and it was resolved a long time ago, and now that someone is back to "get revenge" out of the blue, when you already moved on. You wouldn't like that would you? Yeah, I really should seek therapy, because I couldn't just drop that incident and I let intrusive thoughts win. 35.141.142.199 (talk) 03:32, 29 May 2024 (UTC)[reply]

I can't say whether or not you should seek therapy, but it's been helpful in my own experience. Hope things get better for you either way. Firefangledfeathers (talk / contribs) 03:37, 29 May 2024 (UTC)[reply]

June 2024[edit]

You have been blocked from editing for a period of 48 hours for making personal attacks towards other editors. Once the block has expired, you are welcome to make useful contributions.

If you think there are good reasons for being unblocked, please review Wikipedia's guide to appealing blocks, then add the following text to the bottom of your talk page: {{unblock|reason=Your reason here ~~~~}}. Firefangledfeathers (talk / contribs) 16:37, 2 June 2024 (UTC)[reply]

Hi again IP35. I'm sorry that it's come to this. You are permitted to register an account and start using that exclusively, but you can't be misleading about being a new persona joining a prior dispute (see WP:SOCK for details). If you'd like to use the Proposer of Solutions account moving forward, let me know, and I'll unblock it once the 48 hours have passed. I'll unblock you sooner if you agree to an indefinite one-way interaction ban with ItsCheck, which would mean not interacting with them any further. You mentioned on my talk page that a block might help you move past this. If you think a longer block would be helpful to you, I'm happy to extend this one and note in the block summary that it was at your request. Please ask questions if you have any. Firefangledfeathers (talk / contribs) 16:44, 2 June 2024 (UTC)[reply]

Honestly, I thank you for the block, because it will finally help me move on with my life and not be so fixated on the February incident. 35.141.142.199 (talk) 17:49, 2 June 2024 (UTC)[reply]

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